Lesbian Media Lesbians Love


*Updated August 23, 2025*

We asked our supporters for their favourite lesbian movies, television shows, video games, apps, podcasts, YouTubers, books, artists, websites, musicians, magazines, and any other lesbian media they love. LH hasn’t engaged with all of this media, so we cannot guarantee the politics or enjoyability behind each suggestion. Some of the media will be Very Very Same-Sex but not explicitly or completely lesbian.

As of June 2025, LH is giving a star rating out of 5 (like this: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐) next to media we’ve consumed since.

  • We are planning on making a list of up-and-comers separately (it would be too long to include in this list) so DM the IG or send an email to co*****@*************ry.com with your up-and-coming lesbian media-makers. This list is for beloved known media. Some exceptions will be made for things like podcasts, because it’s a new media genre, but the authors at LH will sniff each suggestion out to decide if it goes in the “up-and-coming” list or this “matured quality” list.
  • Warnings are mostly provided by submitters as LH hasn’t consumed all the media listed.
  • Some items on this list might only have one lesbian couple. Maybe even only in one episode, in a complete series filled with heterosexuals. Maybe their sexual orientation isn’t stated at all and there’s an argument for bisexuality. Rest assured, most suggestions will be lesbian-heavy. But we urge you to research the media before you consume it to avoid disappointment. Some of it will deal with traumatic or debatable scenes and topics. There will be items that the authors at LH haven’t seen. Some we don’t like or agree with. It’s actually healthy to disagree. Lesbians aren’t a monolith. Female homosexuality is the only criterion for being a lesbian. Moving on!

Books

Imogen, Obviously (2022) by Becky Albertalli

Disobedience (2006) by Naomi Alderman (warning: many M/F sex scenes)

Patricia Wants to Cuddle (2022) by Samantha Allen

Skin: Talking About Sex, Class and Literature (1994) by Dorothy Allison (NF)

The Guy She Was Interested in Wasn’t a Guy at All (2022-?) by Sumiko Arai

Our Wives Under the Sea (2022) by Julia Armfield

Poppy Jenkins (2016) by Claire Ashton

Everyone in This Room Will Someday Be Dead (2021) by Emily Austen

Legends & Lattes (2022) by Travis Baldree

Boulder (2022) by Eva Baltasar

Permafrost (2021) by Eva Baltasar

Girl, Serpent, Thorne (2020) by Melissa Bashardoust

She is the Poem (2022) by June Bates

The Essential Dykes to Watch Out For (2008) by Alison Bechdel

Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic (2006) by Alison Bechdel

The Secret to Superhuman Strength (2021) by Alison Bechdel

Nice Jewish Girls (1989) by Evelyn Torton Beck (NF)

The Founds Trilogy #1: Foundryside (2018) by Robert Jackson Bennett

All the Little Moments (2015) by G. Benson

Her Tale of Shim Chong by Seri Biwan

No Shelter But the Stars (2024) by Virginia Black

Delilah Green Doesn’t Care (2022) by Ashley Herring Blake

In Another Place, Not Here (1986) by Dionne Brand

What Comes Naturally (1986) by Gerd Brantenberg

Set in Stone: butch-on-butch erotica (2001) by Angela Brown

Rubyfruit Jungle (1973) by Rita Mae Brown

Dagger on Butch Women (1994) by Lily Burana & Roxxie Linnea Due (NF)

By Anna Burke

Afterlove (2021) by Tanya Byrne

Women: A Novella (2014) by Chloe Caldwell

That’s Ms Bulldyke to You, Charlie! (1992) by Jane Caminos

The Lesbian Sex Book (1993) by Wendy Caster (NF)

XX (2018) by Angela Chadwick

Black Water Sister (2021) by Zen Cho

Not Vanishing (1998) by Chrystos

Correspondance Amoureuse (1899) by Natalie Clifford Barney and Liane de Pougy

A Woman Appeared to Me (1904) by Natalie Clifford Barney

Women Lovers, Or The Third Woman (1926) by Natalie Clifford Barney

Once Ghosted, Twice Shy (2019) by Alyssa Cole

Cunt Colouring Book (1975) by Tee Corinne (NF)

Persistence: All Ways Butch and Femme (2011), edited by Ivan Coyote

Tomboy Survival Guide (2016) by Ivan Coyote

A Song For You: My Life with Whitney Houston (2019) by Robyn Crawford (Non-Fiction)

Galveston 1900: Swept Away (2005) by Linda Crist

The Miseducation of Cameron Post (2012) by Emily Danforth

Plain Bad Heroines (2020) by Emily Danforth

By Max Dashu

In at the Deep End (2019) by Kate Davies

Dykette (2023) by Jenny Fran Davis

Survival Instinct (2018) by May Dawney

Idylle Saphique (1901) by Liane de Pougy

Ça raconte Sarah (2018) by Pauline Delabroy-Allard

Chronicle of Alsea #1: The Caphenon (2014) by Fletcher Delancy

The Complete Hothead Paisan: homicidal lesbian terrorist (1999) by Diane DiMassa (NF)

Hood (1995) by Emma Donoghue

Learned by Heart (2023) by Emma Donoghue

By Jennifer Dugan

This is How You Lose the Time War (2019) by Amal El-Mohtar

Don’t Stop Me (2022) by Eden Emory

Chloe Plus Olivia: An Anthology of Lesbian Literature from the Seventeenth Century to the Present (1994) by Lillian Faderman (NF)

Odd Girls And Twilight Lovers (2012) by Lillian Faderman (NF)

Surpassing the Love of Women (1981) by Lillian Faderman (NF; warning: includes polilez)

Stone Butch Blues (1993) by Leslie Feinberg

Aimée & Jaguar: A Love Story (1994) by Erica Fischer

Acts of Service (2022) by Lillian Fishman

Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistlestop Cafe (1987) by Fannie Flagg

Curious Wine (1983) by Katherine Forrest

Sappho in the Holy Land: Lesbian Existence and Dilemmas in Contemporary (2004) edited by Chava Frankfort-Nachmias & Erella Shadmi (NF)

Cheer Up: Love and Pom Poms (2021) by Crystal Frasier

Searching for Sappho: The Lost Songs and World of the First Woman Poet (2016) by Phillip Freeman (NF)

Annie on My Mind (1982) by Nancy Garden

The Wild Good (1996) by Beatrix Gates (NF)

Herland (1915) by Charlotte Perkins Gillman

My Lesbian Novel (2024) by Renee Gladman

Another Mother Tongue (1984) by Judy Grahn (NF)

Ammonite (1992) by Nicola Griffith

What Lesbians Do (1975) by Godiva

The Gilda Stories (1991) by Jewelle Gomez

Female Masculinity (1998) Jack Halberstam (NF)

The Well of Loneliness (1928) by Radclyffe Hall

Pure Colour (2022) by Paula Heti

The Price of Salt (1952) by Patricia Highsmith

The Girl Who Can’t Get A Girlfriend (2023) by Mieri Hiranishi

A Love Story Starring My Dead Best Friend (2010) by Emily Horner

Her Grace (2023) by S R Hoyer

The Two of Them Are Pretty Much Like This (2020) by Takashi Ikeda

Just for Show (2018) by Jae

The Professor (2023) by Elia Johnson

The Music and the Mirror (2018) by Lola Keeley

Wherever Is Your Heart (2022) by Anita Kelly

Just As You Are (2023) by Camille Kellogg

Boots of Leather, Slippers of Gold: The History of a Lesbian Community (1993) by Elizabeth Lapovsky Kennedy, Madeline D. Davis (NF)

Read Between the Lines (2021) by Rachel Lacey

Stars Collide (2023) by Rachel Lacey

Thérèse and Isabelle (2015) by Violette Leduc

Greasepaint (2024) by Hannah Levene

The Very Inside: An Anthology of Writing by Asian and Pacific Islander Lesbian and Bisexual Women (1998) by Sharon Lim-Hing (NF)

Pride and Prejudice and Pittsburgh (2023) by Rachael Lippincott

She Gets the Girl (2022) by Rachael Lippincott

The Grass Widow (1996) by Nanci Little

Last Night at the Telegraph Club (2021) by Malinda Lo

I Swear Somewhere This Works (2023) by Trista Mateer

Sister Outsider (1984) by Audre Lorde (NF)

Hotshot (2023) by Clare Lydon

Lesbian Nuns: Breaking Silence (1985) by Nancy Manahan & Rosemary Curb (NF)

Elemental Logic #1: Fire Logic (2002) by Laurie J. Marks

The Last Binding #2: A Restless Truth (2022) by Freya Marske

Lesbian Sacred Sexuality (1995) by Diane Mariechild & Marcelina Martin (NF)

A Memory Called Empire (2019) by Arkady Martine

A Desolation Called Peace (2021) by Arkady Martine

Back in Your Arms #1: Back in Your Arms (2021) by Monica McCallan

Afekete: an Anthology of Black Lesbian Writing (1995) by Catherine E. McKinley (NF)

I Kissed Shara Wheeler (2022) by Casey McQuiston

One Last Stop (2021) by Casey McQuiston

This is How You Lose the Time War (2019) by Amal El-Mohtar

The Locked Tomb Series #1: Gideon the Ninth (2019) by Tamsyn Muir

The Locked Tomb Series #2: Harrow the Ninth (2020) by Tamsyn Muir

The Locked Tomb Series #3: Nona the Ninth (2022) by Tamsyn Muir

The Persistent Desire: A Femme-Butch Reader (1992) by Joan Nestle (NF)

A Restricted Country (1987) by Joan Nestle (NF)

Rebel in Venus (2023) by Marissa Alma Nick

Ask, Tell (2017) [series] by E J Noyes

I saw Mommy Kissing the Nanny (2022) by Shannon O’Connor

The Tea Dragon Society (2017) by Kay O’Neill

Broken Things (2013) by Lauren Oliver

Portrait of a Marriage: Vita Sackville-West and Harold Nicolson (1973) by Nigel Nicolson (NF)

The Mimicking of Known Successes (2023) by Malka Ann Older

Dream Work (1986) by Mary Oliver

The Girl From the Sea (2021) by Molly Knox Ostertag

Seafire #2: Steel Tide (2019) by Natalie Parker

The Radiant Emporor #1: She Who Became The Sun (2021) by Shelley Parker-Chan

Love at 350 (2023) by Lisa Peers

The Verifiers #1: The Verifiers (2022) by Jane Pek

Lesbian Love Story (2023) by Amelia Possanza (NF)

Lesbian Culture: an anthology (1993) by Julia Penelope & Susan Wolfe (NF)

When Katie Met Cassidy (2018) by Camille Perri

Violet to Vita: The Letters of Violet Trefusis to Vita Sackville-West, 1910-1921, edited by John Phillips (NF)

Even Though I Knew the End (2022) by C.L. Polk

High School (2019) by Tegan & Sara Quin (NF)

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo (2017) by Taylor Jenkins Reid

Garden Variety Dykes: Lesbian traditions in gardening (1994) by Irene Reti (NF)

The Lesbiana’s Guide to Catholic School (2022) by Sonorah Reyes

Lesbian Erotica (1948 onwards) by Cassandra Rios

Honey Girl (2021) by Morgan Rogers

Desert of the Heart (1964) by Jane Rule

Truly Wilde (2021) by Joan Schenkar

After Sappho (2023) by Selby Wynn Schwartz

Let the Record Show (2021) by Sarah Schulman (NF)

Sword Of The Guardian (2016) by Merry Shannon

The Roots of Chaos #0: A Day of Fallen Night (2023) by Samantha Shannon

The Roots of Chaos #1: The Priory of the Orange Tree (2019) by Samantha Shannon

Carmilla (1872) by J. Sheridan Le Fanu

Meet Me in Another Life (2021) by Catriona Silvey (bi protag but love interest is lesbian)

SCUM Manifesto (1967) by Valerie Solanas (NF)

Heartstrings (2022) by Rachel Spangler

These Witches Don’t Burn #1: These Witches Don’t Burn (2019) by Isabel Sterling

Olivia (1949) by Dorothy Strachey

The Burning Kingdoms #1: The Jasmine Throne (2021) by Tasha Suri

The Burning Kingdoms #2: The Oleander Sword (2022) by Tasha Suri

A Sweet Sting of Salt (2024) by Rose Sutherland

C+nto & Othered Poems (2021) by Joelle Taylor

Never Anyone But You (2018) by Ruper Thompson

Pushing the Limits: disabled dykes produce culture (1996) by Shelley Tremain (NF)

Crier’s War #1: Crier’s War (2019) by Nina Varela

Kiss Number 8 (2019) by Colleen A.F. Venable

By Tillie Walden

The Color Purple (1982) by Alice Walker

Dear John, I Love Jane: Women Write about Leaving Men for Women (2010) by Candace Walsh (editor) NF

Missing Dead Girls (2023) by Sara Walters

Affinity (1999) by Sarah Waters

Fingersmith (2002) by Sarah Waters

The Night Watch (2006) by Sarah Waters

The Paying Guests (2014) by Sarah Waters

Tipping the Velvet (1998) by Sarah Waters

The Lesbian Love Advisor (1989) by Celeste West (NF)

Something to Talk About (2019) by Meryl Wilsner

When Women Were Warriors (2008) series by Catherine M. Wilson

Truth #1: The Brutal Truth (2017) by Lee Winter

Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit (1985) by Jeanette Winterson

Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? (2011) by Jeanette Winterson (NF)

Written on the Body (1992) by Jeanette Winterson

She Loves To Cook, She Loves To Eat (2020) by Sakaomi Yuzaki

Newspapers, Magazines & Journals

Arena Three (1964-1971)

Chanacomchana (1981-1987)

Curve (1991-?)

Diva (1994-?)

DYKE: A QUARTERLY (1975-1979)

Dykes & Gorgons (1973-1976) [1]

Landykes of the South: women’s land groups and lesbian communities in the South (2015)

Lesbian Connection (1974-?)

Lez Spread the Word (2012-?)

Maize: A Lesbian Country Magazine (1982-?)

Onyx (1982-1984) [1]

Quim Magazine (1989-1994 + 2001) [1]

Sappho (1972-1981)

Sinister Wisdom (1976-?)

Films

8 Women (2002) (French)

Aimée & Jaguar (1999) (German) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

All Cheerleaders Die (2013)

All Over Me (1997) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Ammonite (2020) ⭐⭐⭐⭐

Another Way (1982) (Hungarian)

Badhaai Do (2022) (Hindi)

Below Her Mouth (2016) ⭐⭐⭐⭐1 (Warning: nudity + actual sex, 18+)

Better Than Chocolate (1999)

Blue is the Warmest Colour (2013) (French) ⭐ – read our article on it

Blue Jean (2022) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐2

Born in Flames (1983) ⭐⭐⭐3

Bottoms (2023) ⭐⭐⭐

Bound (1996) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐4

But I’m a Cheerleader (1999) ⭐⭐⭐⭐

Bye Bye Blondie (2012) (French)

Carmen & Lola (2018) (Spanish)

Carol (2015) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

The Children’s Hour (1961) ⭐⭐⭐5

Chutney Popcorn (1999) ⭐⭐⭐6

Cloudburst (2011) ⭐⭐⭐⭐7

Codependent Lesbian Space Alien Seeks Same (2011) ⭐⭐⭐½8

A Comedy in Six Unnatural Acts (1975)

A Date For Mad Mary (2016) ⭐⭐⭐⭐½9

D.E.B.S (2004) ⭐⭐⭐⭐10

Desert Hearts (1985) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Disobedience (2017)

The Duke of Burgundy (2014) (warning: disturbing)

Drool (2009)

Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga (2019)

Elena Undone (2010)

Elisa & Marcela (2019) (Spanish)

The Favourite (2018)

The Fear Street Trilogy (2021)

Fire (1996)

Fire Cracker (2022)

The Firefly (2015) (Spanish)

Fresh Kill (1994)

Fried Green Tomatoes (1991)

Gia (1998) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Go Fish (1994)

The Handmaiden (2016)

I Can’t Think Straight (2008)

If These Walls Could Talk 2 (1996) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Imagine Me and You (2005)

The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love (1995)

Itty Bitty Titty Committee (2007)

Kase-san and Morning Glories (2018)

Kiss Me (2011) (Swedish)

The Little Sister (2025) (French)

Lizzie (2018)

Love Lies Bleeding (2024)

Loving Annabelle (2006)

Mädchen in Uniform (1931)

Maja Ma (2023)

The Mark of Lilith (1986)

The Miseducation of Cameron Post (2018)

Monster (2003) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

More Beautiful for Having Been Broken (2019)

Mulholland Drive (2001)

My First Summer (2020)

Novitiate (2017) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Pariah (2011)

The Perfection (2018)

Persona (1966) (Swedish)

Personal Best (1982)

Polarized (2023)

Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Pourquoi Pas Moi? (1999)

Princess Syd (2017)

Rafiki (2018) (Swahili)

Reaching for the Moon (2013) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Rebecca (1940)

Salmonberries (1991)

Saving Face (2004)

The Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister (2010)

Show Me Love [Swedish: Fucking Amal] (1998)

Snapshots (2018)

The Summer of Sangaile (2015) (Lithuanian)

Summerland (2020)

Summertime (2015)

Tár (2022)

Tell it to the Bees (2018)

Unborn (2022)

Vita & Virginia (2018)

The Watermelon Woman (1996)

When Night is Falling (1995) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

The World to Come (2021)

Yes or No (2010)

Documentaries

Ahead of the Curve (2020)

The David Susskind Show: Women Who Love Women (1971) ⭐⭐⭐⭐11

Documento Especial – Muito Feminina (1989/1990)

Dyketactics (1974) [another link]

Forbidden Love: The Unashamed Stories of Lesbian Lives (1992)

FtF: Female to Femme (2006)

Gateways Grind (2022)

Gender Troubles: The Butches (2016)

A Great Ride (2018)

The Important Thing is Love (1971)

Isla’s Way (2023) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐12

Last Call at Maud’s (1993)

Lesbian Avengers Eat Fire Too (1993)

Loving Highsmith (2022)

Old Lesbians (2023)

Once a Fury (2020)

Outlaw (1994)

Rebel Dykes (2021)

Rise Above: The Tribe 8 Documentary (2004)

The Sally Ride Story: A Woman Space Pioneer (2000)

Sappho: Love and Life on Lesbos (2015)

A Simple Matter of Justice (1993)

Some Ground to Stand On (1998)

Storme: Lady of the Jewel Box (1987)

TV Shows

The 100 (2014-?)

3% (2016-2020) (involves lesbians after the first season)

Acacias 38 (2015-2021)

Agatha All Along (2024)

Arcane (2021-?)

American Horror Story: Asylum (2012-2013)

Atypical (2017-2020)

Bad Girls Club (2006-2017)

Black Mirror: San Junipero (2016; Season 3 Episode 4)

Buffy the Vampire Slayer (1997-2003) *Specifically between Willow and Tara later in the seasons

Coming Out for Love (2021-?)

Deadloch (2023-?)

Derry Girls (2018-?)

Dickinson (2019-2021)

Everything Everywhere All at Once (2022)

Everything Sucks (2018)

Feel Good (2020-2021) *not strictly lesbian but very Sapphic*

The Fosters (2013-2018)

Gentleman Jack (2019 – 2022)

Gap: The Series (2022-2023)

Grease: Rise of the Pink Ladies (2023) *not explicitly lesbian*

Grey’s Anatomy (2005-?)

The Haunting of Bly Manor (2020)

High School (2022)

Hoochie Daddies (2023-?)

I Kissed a Girl (2024-?)

Killing Eve (2018-2022)

The L Word [OG] (2004-2009)

The L Word [Gen Q] (2019-2023)

Las Pelotaris 1926 (2023-?)

The Last of Us (2023-?)

A League of Their Own (2022)

Les de l’hoquei (2019-2020)

Lip Service (2010-2012)

The Loyal Pin (2024)

Mind Fudge (2017-2019)

Mine (2021-?)

The Morning Show (2019-?)

Noir (2001)

Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit (1989-1990)

Orange is the New Black (2013-2019)

Orphan Black (2013-2017)

The Other Love Story (YouTube)

The Owl House (2020-2023)

Paper Girls (2022)

Portrait of a Marriage (1990)

Princess Charming (2021-?)

Ratched (2020-?)

The Real L Word (2010-2012)

Revolutionary Girl Utena (1997)

Sailor Moon (1995-2000)

Saving Face (2004)

Second City Firsts: Episode “Girl” (1974) *First lesbian kiss on British TV

Sex Education (2019-2023)

She Makes My Heart Flutter (YouTube)

She-Ra and the Princesses of Power (2018-2020)

South of Nowhere (2005-2008)

Special Ops: Lioness (2023-?)

Station 19 (2018-?)

Tipping the Velvet (2002)

Uranus 2324 (2024) (Thai)

Vida (2018-2020)

Warrior Nun (2020-2022)

Wentworth (2013-2021)

The Wilds (2020-2022)

Willow (2022)

Wynona Earp (2016-2021)

Xena: Warrior Princess (1995-2001)

Yellowjackets (2021-?)

Musicians

Adraina Calcanhotto

Alix Dobkin (warning: polilez)

Allison Russell

Ana Carolina

Anna Calvi

Becca Mancari

Boygenius

Boyish

Brandi Carlile

Brittany Howard

Brooke Eden

Chappell Roan

Chely Wright

Destroy Boys

Donna Deitch

Doria Roberts

Dusty Springfield

Ferron

G-Flip

GA31

Gia Woods

Girl in Red

Girl Ray

Giuni Russo

Hayley Kiyoko

Horse McDonald

Jaime Wyatt

The Japanese House

Javiera Mena

Jen Foster

Joan Jett

Judy Small

Julien Baker

The Indigo Girls

KD Lang

Kehlani

Kerryn Fields

King Princess

Lesley Gore

Lez Zepplin

Lily Rose

LP

Maria Gadú

Marika Hackman

Marilina Bertoldi

Melissa Carper

Melissa Etheridge

Morgan Wade

MUNA

Nakala

Norma Tanega

Orion Sun

Raveena

Renee Rapp

S.G. Goodman

Shura

Syd (from The Internet)

Tasha

Tegan and Sara

Torres

Tracy Chapman

Tribe 8

Valkyrien Allstars

Wallis Bird

Xana

Zolita

Artists

Anne-Sophie Guillet

Azzurro Velluto

Barbara Hammer

Because of My Love For Women

Bettye Lane

Catherine Opie

Chloe Sherman

Donna Gottschalk

Dyke Action Machine

Emily Witham

Harmony Hammond

Helena Janecic

Jenifer Prince

Jennifer Camper

Jessica Tanzer

Joan E. Biren (JEB)

Kay Turner

Lulu Belliveau

Maxine Harlow

Meadow Muska

Morgan Gwenwald

Nazareth dos Santos

Patricia Cronin

Ree Artemisia

Roman Manfredi

Roxana Halls

Sarah Joy Ford

Shelby Sharie Cohen

Suzanne Shifflet

Tina Fiveash

Websites

IHeartSapphfic.com

TheLChat.net

LesbianHerstory.com

LesbiansOverEverything.com

Lesbocine.com

Listening2Lesbians.com

YouTube

Abbie & Julia

Alayna Joy

Alexis and Lilian

Amber’s Closet

Ashley Gavin

Camper Vibe

Chey & Erica

Chloe Lukasiak

Jade Fox

Jessica Kellgren-Fozard

Living Rosa

Lovebrook

Louie Ponto

Magdalen Berns

Mandie & Danae

The No Homo Show

P&J TV

Paige and Holly

Precious Law

Sam & Alyssa

Sapphic Underground

Stevie Boebi

Vanwives

Willow Faith

Podcasts

Blocked and Reported (a host is a lesbian)

Chosen Family

Dyking Out

Gayotic

Handsome

The Lavender Menace

A Lesbian Affair

Lesbian Supper Club

Lésbica & Ansiosa

Lesbiche Liga (Dutch)

Lez Hang Out

Made it Out

Pants

Stone Butch Disco

Two twos

We’re Having Gay Sex

Comedians

Alex Ward

Ali Kolbert

Arielle Isaac Norman

Ashley Gavin

Chaunté Wayans

Chloe Petts

Fortune Feimster

Geraldine Hickey

Gina Yashere

Haley Faulkner

Hannah Gadsby

Irene Tu

Jen Brister

Rosie O’Donnell

Tig Notaro

Urzila Carlson

Video Games

Butterfly Soup (1&2)

Gone Home

Horizon Zero Dawn & Horizon Forbidden West

The Last of Us (1&2)

Life is Strange

Lost Records: Bloom & Rage

Apps

Club Monocle

LH’s Notes

  1. Below Her Mouth:
    The choice between heternormativity or desired sex.
    👍 Good sex scenes, good chemistry, good articulation of the tomboy/butch experience without leaning into gender identity issues. Good conversations about lesbian issues and past experiences, including “choosing being normal” by pretending to be straight or, alternatively, being abandoned by your lover, “for the straight life.”
    👎 The scenes where Dallas chases Jasmine at the club felt a bit pushy. Bad representation or evidence of a complex character? Not sure. It’s a bit overbaked: the movie tries hard to be artsy and cool, at the expense of being Real. Even the cast are aesthetically “perfect,” but the feminine women reflect heteropatriarchal versions of beauty rather than how real femme lesbians look or act… constantly reminding me I’m watching a film. It was giving… harmful, misogynistic femininity (such as beauty procedures) as opposed to the way femmes subvert femininity to attract other women. ↩︎
  2. Blue Jean:
    Life as a lesbian teacher under Section 28.
    👍 Masterpiece. Political, emotional, historical, romantic and real.
    👎 A tiny bit slow. ↩︎
  3. Born in Flames:
    It’s post-liberation, but nobody’s truly liberated. We’re just told we are.
    👍 Don’t be fooled by the three stars; this is worth watching. The concept is great. It’s radical. There’s black lesbian rep galore. It makes you think. It offers feminist solutions. It’s angry. It’s intellectual.
    👎 The execution and quality are lacking. It’s a low-budget, very political docufiction from the ’80s—and I’m used to professional, commercial junk made with 2025 tech—so it was extremely hard for me to stay engaged. ↩︎
  4. Bound:
    If the idea of a butch/femme pair of lovers plotting against men tickles your pickle, this is for you.
    👍 Hot. Deals with the theme of trust/betrayal in a satisfying way. Quality.
    👎 Some of the kissing feels straight. ↩︎
  5. The Children’s Hour:
    Two teachers are rumoured to be into one another, and the whole town gets out its pitchforks. What is the truth? Does it matter?
    👍 Fairly sympathetic to lesbianism for what was allowed in 1961, which is probably why it was so controversial for its time. Critics say the film is homophobic because homosexuality is spoken about as unnatural and sickening – but that’s how people did (and sometimes still do!) see homosexuality. The internalised homophobia depicted is very real! The film’s message seems to be “mind your business if they’re not hurting anyone.” It was a good insight into attitudes towards lesbianism in the 1960s, including what’s changed and what hasn’t. Surprisingly relatable.
    👎 The way films were made back then can be a bit boring. The Children’s Hour would have benefited from more light moments, as it was almost consistently dark. ↩︎
  6. Chutney Popcorn:
    An independent, alternative Indian-American lesbian chooses to have a baby for her infertile sister.
    👍 Interesting, non-stereotypical representation of both lesbians and Indian-Americans. The baby symbolises bridging gaps – which, in this case, I am ambivilant about because…
    👎 Would Reena have wanted a baby if it wasn’t to gain her mother’s approval? Some lesbians DO want kids but this feels more like a story about a lesbain who didn’t, but was treated as “selfish” and wanted to prove that wasn’t true. Wanted to fit in with her family, so she gave birth in order to be seen as “normal.” And this is celebrated? ↩︎
  7. Cloudburst:
    An elderly lesbian couple deal with old age and disability in the most hilarious ways, creating a found family along the way.
    👍 Probably the funniest lesbian movie I’ve ever seen. I believed in the couple’s connection. The narrative was random, but in a good way. It painted elderly and disabled people in a fully fleshed-out way. Did not rely on stereotypes or portray old and disabled people as helpless, poor, suffering victims who can barely crack a smile.
    👎 The pacing was a bit off in parts. I couldn’t locate them geographically, except when they mentioned driving to Canada (so I assume they were from the USA), but the various accents confused me… we needed a little more backstory of how everyone arrived in the seaside town, to make sense of the environment they lived in. ↩︎
  8. Codependent Lesbian Space Alien Seeks Same
    Aliens come to Earth hoping to break their own hearts to fix the ozone layer, which they believe is caused by humankind’s Big Love Feelings.
    👍 Silly, but in a good way. Also feels eerily familiar, in a way it shouldn’t. Captures the awkward silliness of Big Feelings.
    👎 Perfect for what it was, I just need something more than silly to rate it higher. It was low-budget, which is fine, but it felt a bit like an art school project, which takes away believability… although I don’t think its intention was to be believable. ↩︎
  9. A Date For Mad Mary
    Young woman navigates trauma, anger issues, growing up, finding out who her real friends are, and falling in love.
    👍 True to life but unique – something I haven’t quite seen in a lesbian movie before. A raw, real and at times dark spin on the traditional coming of age story.
    👎 Not missing anything in particular, just lacks the extremely special edge to be 5 stars. I left the film feeling good but not necessarily blown away. No reason for that, aside from the plot being a bit predictable toward the end. ↩︎
  10. D.E.B.S
    One teen girl spy in an academy filled with them falls in love with a villain she’s supposed to hunt down.
    👍 Girls are better than men at stuff. ’90s weirdness (despite it being a 2004 film). Campy. Fun. Lighthearted. Girl power. Feel-good. Bad graphics (it’s in the thumbs-up category because it adds to the comic book vibe – makes it cartoony). Made me nostalgic for the normal teeth and facial features of female actors pre-Botox and veneers.
    👎 Sexualised school uniforms. I think the villain love interest might be a bit too old for the protagonist, particularly if she’s a minor. An age gap wouldn’t be an issue if the younger one weren’t still in school. But then again, the villain does a test at the end, indicating she’s supposed to be in school too – but research says she’s in her 20s. ↩︎
  11. The David Susskind Show: Women Who Love Women
    Lesbians tear a homophobic straight man apart on his own TV show like a pack of lionesses.
    👍 It was cool seeing such opposing views (some wildly homophobic) being discussed in a way that’s jovial and non-dramatic—a panel of very resilient people. I think having a face-to-face conversation prevented the homophobic host from saying worse. I love how the show didn’t put any other homophobic people on the panel to back him up, either, and the audience was all lesbian and gay (deducing from the reactions), or else it would have been excruciating for the lesbians involved. The timing of this was fascinating to me (1971); the gay liberation movement was mature, but lesbians were moving off to the women’s liberation movement… and a gay man asks why.
    👎 It sounded like some of the women might have been polilez, but I think lesbianism was spoken about a little differently back then anyway, especially due to the innateness of lesbianism being seen as a sickness. I’m not sure if it was a choice between an attraction to both men and women for them… or whether they mean “choosing lesbianism” as opposed to a heterosexual life they’d hate due to being homosexual. They speak about “being straight” and “being lesbian/gay” more in terms of actions, rather than attraction, which made it confusing. Like “I was straight and I hated it” – OK, but were you attracted to men or not? Do you mean you appeared straight due to the relationships you had, being a lesbian the whole time, without a word for it? The ones who spoke more about their solidarity with gay men were not polilez. I think the interview shows the conflict between real lesbians and polilez at the time, but, for the purpose of the interview, there wasn’t a point in arguing about that. Maybe they attempted to focus on one thing at a time. ↩︎
  12. Isla’s Way:
    An 87-year-old great-grandmother and Australian cowboy named Isla lives with her partner, Susan.
    👍 Best documentry I’ve ever seen. Familiar, relatable, interesting, engaging, honest and real. Isla is a legend. Director Marion Pilowsky does such a caring, generous job.
    👎 Literally nothing. Perfect. ↩︎

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